I like to watch - I like to be watched - with a few exceptions I don't tend to like fake "set up" videos - I do love real self shot videos. To see the face during climax is much more of a turn on than seeing random genitalia with no idea who they belong to or how the person is enjoying their actions. Tell me what turns you on and what you like to see. Apologies in advance if I don't always reply to your messages - I am somewhat wary of people until I learn to trust them. Telling me about yourself is more likely to get a reply than just asking 'how are you' or saying hi.