Guys anal is really difficult for us. Especially the first time. It’s really really hard for them to get in and harder for us. But once they are in all the way if long enough. It does get much easier. Like instantly. I just did recently and with a blk man . Which was undesirable. But now it’s my fav. I’d leave it in me all the time if i could. My point is it’s not as easy as you think. At first anyway