to Southern1958 :Sir I mean no disrespect but and can only speak for myself but so not true. Well kinda . Some. Definitely not passion for me. It’s just good sex. Some people don’t agree with me but if there’s no passion it’s just for amazing sex. If you don’t get to know them and just enjoy it. I don’t think you’re truly cheating. No love involved. But I definitely don’t just lay there. I’m there to enjoy and pleasure them. I do what they want forsure. But I will say blk men are great. They take control and do sooo hard. Not to mention most are really big. My bf and other white guys I’ve been with are more loving and don’t do it hard. It’s nice sometimes. I think there just nice er. I don’t mean to insult anyone and it’s just my experiences.