He could spank me ANYTIME like that. It was just right, not hard enough to bruise, but definately stinging. A bit of butt play would have been nice, though. I had a top that would finger fuck me during spankings, first one finger, spank some, then 2 fingers, spank some, then3 fingers with rapid in and out. It was magnificent after which he would face fuck me me and make me swallow every drop. If I spilled some, more spanking! Glorious!!!