Yeah my first wasn’t that bad till he just shoved all the way I. Then it was great tho. But sitting on them to start is definitely the best way. We tried everything but I was just to tense. I think it’s gotta be the same for everyone. And I prepared for two weeks with dildo . But nope could not do anyway except for sitting on him and it just goes . Breath out and sit it goes farely smooth. No easy but its a great feeling. But I was like half way and he thrusted it all the way . That was undiscribable but after that it was soooo good . I think everyone should try atleast once. Guy and girls. Not saying d but guys use a dildo . It’s so great . I assume it’s the same for all of us