Anytime a guy has had an accident I hide it super quick and act completely normal and the first thing I do when they come out of the bathroom cuz that’s when they’ll usually realize it is give them a huge kiss and tell them how fucking hot that was so they think that it happened after I pulled it out and that I had no idea. Because if they even know that you know even if you’re cool about it, it makes them feel gross and self conscious basically every time after that and it’s pretty traumatic for them. Be compassionate to guys whenever you can even if they’re a one night stand because even if that’s all it is at least they know one person existed out there who was genuinely nice and that can give them all the hope in the world that another guy like that exists out there for them. And being someone who’s Hottttt but real, compassionate, funny, witty, intelligent, is capable of deep emotions, is extremely empathetic, and intuitive is one of the rarest combinations in this world. Especially in places like San Diego and LA.